It’s the end of January and although I’m in a dizzy haze about the speed of passing time, I realize too that nothing and everything has changed. I keep telling myself that one day I’ll sort out the future, and put the past away where it belongs. Consequently, I find myself acrimoniously overanalyzing every comment, every glance, every phrase, every aspect of my bromidic life. If I’m not chiding myself for something I’ve said, I’m probably blaming myself for something that happened in someone else’s life. My shoulders couldn’t be broad enough to bear the things I take upon myself to feel unworthy of, or responsible for.
My heart is continuously castigated by torrents on non stop quivering, and motionless placidity. Even when I’m in a dull state of pure existence heavy tears find their way from my soul to my heaving chest and the reasons I cry are perpetually unchanging. Eternally amaranthine
In passing, I’ve come to terms with the underlying cause of my grief and empathy. Parenthetically I’ve realized between my harrowing self worth issues, and my disqualification to feel loved, I need to be someone’s hero, and I need proof that I’m worthy.
Knowing that there are consequences for actions and responsibilities that must be met, I cower behind blind rage. I criticize, and I seek authentication, just any evidence that attests to my reality. I seek an emporium to stash the blame. I look for reasons to fail. To sabotage my victories. And I find them.
I tell myself that I will sort this out. That one day things will fall into place, and I wait.
Months deteriorate and become years. My stack of dearth becomes insurmountable. I languidly isolate and shatter my insecurities. I will be more than the rubble that girdles me. I will be stronger, braver and less demeaning. I will be ENOUGH.